i am at a loss,i do not know wether should i give up my love.he always tells me that i should understand him when we have qurrel. but understand including two parts, friend tell me that i should sacrifice somthing,but only my single side understand and sacrifice him, i have no idea about our love.[A Professional Business Forum]/V+y6\+W'U8?5|;];M:r

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well,you should have told us the brief reasons for the quarrel,before you gie you some advice,right?

we have qurreled so many times, but we still love each other,he always is on business trip ,far from me, i know the reason why he work so hard, he want to give me a good life, but i do not money is most important thing, i can seldom see him,.
(U B!?5z3f%v3a:V9dwww.fobshanghai.comabout his family, his father always ask me to help my bf sister to find a job, i do not agree to do that. for  last year i find a factory to work, but she does not cherish,leave the work without notice to me.when she left ,she told me that her father ask her to go back home.i have hurt by her deeply, so i won't find jobs for her.[A Professional Business Forum]:Y4u%d;u3T1}0X!G:?
by the way , i am a girl and just graduated from unvisity last year.i do not know why his parents can think about me

it seems here only have we three people

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Personally,it is your problem,I think.
&{,Y p*u2k/^!M:s6h4M[A Professional Business Forum]1,it is not an easy money thing,it is a career for man,your man, successful life is always from the hard work in young age.FOB Business Forum9D3y:d:a6b#Y
2,it is really a moving thing that y bf work hard to give you a better life;on the other hand,do you think it is necessary for you guys stick together all the long time? Beauty is sometimes from distance.FOB Business Forum7T5I2y$G7E;R2b!K2F+n)M
3.On the other hand,if your bf quit the job and have no incoming,and you have to raise the faimily and work deffinitely hard to make the end meet,can you accept this situation? No matter to say a man with ambition.[A Professional Business Forum]7S.F#C:L k6\.Y7o'P9[*P6W;P
4.Find sth.to do when ur bf is not arround u,espeically your english,i do not think you can make a good job replying on what you are now.
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thank you for your advice. To be frank, i know it's my problem, but i can not persuade myself nor you. so i am at a loss. i need time to consider about it

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2,it is really a moving thing that y bf work hard to give you a better life;on the other hand,do you think it is necessary for you guys stick together all the long time? Beauty is sometimes from distance. please do not so extremeness, i don' like his moving work, but i also not ask him stay with me at every minutes.please understand
,B.\1Y6k%G+r%c[A Professional Business Forum]3.On the other hand,if your bf quit the job and have no incoming,and you have to raise the faimily and work deffinitely hard to make the end meet,can you accept this situation? No matter to say a man with ambition.for this point, he must find a new job but not stay at home ,also you are so extremenss,am i right?4.Find sth.to do when ur bf is not arround u,espeically your english,i do not think you can make a good job replying on what you are now.
(Y7W/C7v+~%G/_'t1H;{+@FOB Business Forumi know i should practice english , and i am doing it now. My job is very good for me, my friends also think so,you are prejudice5.Bitter advice,sorry if it hurts you. anyway, thank you very muchFOB Business Forum;x-k;q!Z4v0m+u!|
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[ Last edited by starzhang430 at 2008-7-5 14:28 ]

cann't help you.coz only you understand the realtionship deeply.so you have to think it over and over again ,but i wish that everything will  be ok soon.

thank you

i never make any prejudice even if i have no coint in the pocket while the others are running with Benz, everyone has different view for the life,which is the same as you insist that yr bf should share more time with you,while he should he must work hard to give you a better life.www.fobshanghai.com"I8k2M(k'i#X'S

-S!o7H%W9{)A*A;QFOB Business Forumi just gave my advice, if you were offened,pls take my regret and let it go.

i am just here to say 'hello' ....................
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love is one person being accustomed to another person with the situation ..........

If a man works hard,achieves something...carrier and name will be with him for ever.
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If he listens too much to a lady and sacrifice his  hard work ,a day will come when lady will not be with him for ever.
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"F1o7U1H's2HFOB Business ForumReasons differs because situation differs.... so i can not say exact reason.
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!p$i(W4[;x0q.rFOB Business ForumLet him work free,do not give him any pressure.
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-l&g S,A%T7h#fwww.fobshanghai.comYou said you know why is he working so hard?Who knows when going to another place,he may have enjoyed with other girls too there.You can not predict sexual chatacters of boys /girls by their manners.Let him do what is best for him but not for you.Its his company job,how can you decide where he shall work?Let company decide. leave a job for you?OH,if you want that you are an idiot.
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Why do you want him to be close with you  every time? Unless you noth work in a same co. you will never be satisfied,but that is unlikely to happen.

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thank you for you all, to be frank ,i can understand him and support him. and it is normally i have complaint,right?www.fobshanghai.com7f#g!Z"w'L$g9]
for i could not say this to him , it could hurt himself, i can not say to my parents, they will worry me,so i have to say here.hope you can understand.good luck to you all.

feel sorry to say ii have no idea about love ,-U;|(M Y:j4`4K/R
such as one sentence said ,i am alone but i am not lonely