My friends, would you give me a hand?

Dear my friend, would you help me?
A#`q'Uv{$g I found I dislike my job. I don't want to work any more.:Q :Q I only want to have a rest. I don't know why.)]6b:N8UQ(a8^z
Everyday I have a detailed plan, but none is finished. It made me sorrow. I don't know how to adjust myself.
}wG.\E:L(f What I should do?? How to control myself??

Then , give yourself a holiday :lol

Reply #2 JocelynQiu's post

:') I want, but I can't. No money.:') :')

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I admire one sentence:"Work like you do not need money"
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Cheer on!

you must find some methods to alleviate your pressure:5]A\%Mg3rj
1.Free your heart from hatred, 2.Free your mind from worries, 3.Live simply, 4.Give more, 5.Expect less.
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Reply #1 wendy521's post

Sometimes i have the same situation as you:( worry about everything and don't want to work,don't know how to deal with my job,but i always say to myself like this:cheer up,come on,tomorrow is another,tomorrow is more beautiful,i must insist:victory: :lol

hello my friend ,come on

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Try to make your detailed plan come true every day.
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maybe you can change your job if possible. or else you have to tell youself you must stick to it.:)

Relax.girl. everything gonna be ok.....

keep calm down, and have  a rest for several days, and then you would think it clearly and adjust yourself well.

Reply #1 wendy521's post

calm down, and scan yourself, what u can do and what u want to do..@5KK8xQ
good luck:victory:

Just stop thinking about boring,and finish your job,do some studying.Try to make your selves busy.

Reply #5 tina-liang1986's post

Thank you. I will try what you said.

Reply #6 grace200705's post

OK,let's insist!K:p5Ezn1l
Maybe bright is coming.........:L

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Reply #9 qqblue's post

thanks!Thank you for your reply.

Thank all of you!
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i have the same feeling with you .i don't know where is my destination.life with hopeless.i feel lost somedays................:(

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Reply #1 wendy521's post

take it easy .Life is  like that@5jE_0|^k;L`^
We should enjoy our life per day.

Sometimes, I encoure the same problems as you. Then I will take a day off and go out. Then I will think everyone is working now, but I am enjoying myself, so I will cheer up.:lol

my reply!

1.find the real reason why u dislike your job? just cz you can't finish your everyday's plan or u are not suitable for this job?if as can't finish plan, i suggest that u can make a small plan everyday,not too many plans.cz time and energy is limited. and every night, analyse what u do in the day.what is right? what u can do better?make yourself get 1% progress everyday,i trust u will like your job.
,P{6t;O.Bi 2.If as your character is not suitable for this job,i think u will make a good decision.

Go ahead to finish your plan! With aim is better than planless.