The happiness I found

I used to complain a lot,with things,everything.Life seemed dull to me, job is only to make a living as a burden.I hated to keep sticking before computer 8 hours a day,six days a week.I hated to be controlled by routines,typing some silly words to beg an order.I even lost temper and yelling to my mother and crying in my heart,why didn't you born me in a better family...
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"J#\3a!xoe Gn'[ Things are going on till I met my wife in 2006.I can't remember well now, but it was a winter day with good sunshine.I fell in love with her in the first sight,even though she is not good looking and slim. But she was attractive,with a bright smile,bringing nice feeling in the cold winter.u,n$u
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}6aw6Zt:NYE We kept dating every weekend, and days passed quickly, things seems better for me.I did better in my job,and get along well with my parents.I didn't stay up and play online games any more,QQ became my best friends,I talked with her in QQ till she went to bed before 9:00pm.(she is a teacher and usually get up before 7:00am)---to be continued.
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Cold winter lastly passed and the nice spring was coming, even though it was a bit cold and fell quiet dizzy every weekend morning,but we just let such dating go on.We climbed hills,went to park taking photos and feeding fish.Then I realised that we have been dating for nearly 4 months,however,I even didn't ask her as my girlfriend,we had nothing except hand in hand,sometimes,when I was always very excited.While my parent was pushing me to find a wife for them,they can't wait for the future grandson,I think.In fact,they are finding proper girl for"INTERVIEW".I didn't like such meeting at all, I knew I must let thing go further,and chance was coming...to be continued
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think you two will have a bright future.:loveliness:  Maybe love is the best happy thing for the pessimism person.
(TI3G5qeAW;X But i can not be happy now, because one of my best friends and colleagues just quit his job and will leave after two days.  I don't know how to say ! how could i do! Maybe  in this company we couldn't find anything that could be cherished, and maybe we should do the honorable thing and resign!!!
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oh, i don't like to find a 6 days in a week job

yelling to my mother ???? oh, i don't have such chance, i live far away from her.VT,J0q2?6X}\

-_Z5S/p)V#Q i wish i could

don't let it happen like the movie ＂marriage is a crazy thing＂...that is a sad story

At least you got someone you really loved, that's the most important thing, although the life is tough, you can bear it with your lover, good luck buddy and everyone in this forum, this year is so hard to get over.:(  :( :( :(

It was May 1st,2007,Labor holiday.We went to Ningbo youngor zoo,where she had admired a long time.We had great time there,the weather was good,the animals were cute and popele there very polite.We went through from tiger to Lion,from peacock to monkeys,hand-in-hand,of course.Lastly,come we to the panda.It is reallythe most lovely creature in this planet.I even wanna have a hug with him,really could not help.It was first time for both of us saw the panda in such a close distance,only stopped from a window wall.We felt sorry we didn't have a chance to have the hug,so we hug each other,first time,of course.Pity that I didn't brave enough to kiss her.:lol

I will mainly use normal present tense for my story.

Time flies, night fall comes l, so does the zoo closed,we said goodbye to the panda and got on the bus to the center city.6U/L1M?#L`U,B#p~BoSw
All of a sudden, I realized a problem,how should we spend the evening and where did me to live.Apparently,we must book rooms in the hotel.hoever,things seems not so easy as we expected.It was not so easy to book two rooms because of holidays.Almost all of the hotels had ran out the rooms.I joked that we may have to stay up at the bench outside." It is OK if you go with me.She answered with her usual smile.I was surprised and moved. Lastly,we found a small hotel with room left,however,the mistress offer us one room without asking us.Evidently,we thought we are couples,having holiday in Ningbo.Of course,we explained the situation,and wanna book two rooms,although i was not so willing,for the pocket or something else.:lol
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"There is only one room left,even not a standard room,with a large and comfortable bed." Answered the mistress,"of course,with bathroom as well as the air conditioner,worthy for 200 bucks for such holiday evening.She added.I could feel an embarrassment from my girl. Her face redden to be an apple.I felt sorry that I fail to find a better room for her,meanwhile turning to the mistress and giving her 200 bucks as well as my ID card,even without hesitation.Her face floated by an evil smile,so did I, unrealved in deep heart.rPT G*B @(I
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:) :) :) congratulations!Wish you be happy.

haha, you imagine each other to be a panda...
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2d&TnY1U"bn [quote]Originally posted by [i]alexnee[/i] at 2008-7-2 09:38 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3262682&ptid=325689][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Xv*|/SS It was May 1st,2007,Labor holiday.We went to Ningbo youngor zoo,where she had admired a long time.We had great time there,the weather was good,the animals were cute and popele there very polite.We went through from tiger to Lion,from peacock to monkeys,hand-in-hand,of course.Lastly,come we to the panda.It is reallythe most lovely creature in this planet.I even wanna have a hug with him,really could not help.It was first time for both of us saw the panda in such a close distance,only stopped from a window wall.We felt sorry we didn't have a chance to have the hug,so we hug each other,first time,of course.Pity that I didn't brave enough to kiss her.:lol [/quote]

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Time flies, night fall comes l, so does the zoo closed,we said goodbye to the panda and got on the bus to the center city.
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i think buck should only stands for USD...not RMBd3Q%byTE d0n
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$n/Or_*Tr@9? [quote]Originally posted by [i]alexnee[/i] at 2008-7-3 13:44 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3262940&ptid=325689][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
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"There is only one room left,even not a standard room,with a large and comfortable bed." Answered the mistress,"of course,with bathroom as well as the air conditioner,worthy for 200 bucks for such holiday evening.She added.I could feel an embarrassment from my girl. Her face redden to be an apple.I felt sorry that I fail to find a better room for her,meanwhile turning to the mistress and giving her 200 bucks as well as my ID ca [/quote]

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seems a little long, i will back to it later:lol

Entering the room,we did some washing and put off the staff,which lastly unloaded the burden that I had been sufferring a lot.It was late and we did not take the dinner yet,so we decided to go out for Tianyi Square where  is not long  distance from we accomodated..
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I could swear that we'd never had such meal before,like coyotes,never let any cows go through our signt,even if we were pretty full.Dragged some candied gourds on hand while holding chicken legs on mouth,we even had no time to finish lamb meat,while there came crawfish.I bet I never had such nice food in my life and was totally shocked how much we totally had today.I do not say what was the effect on my wallet of losing weight,but 200yuan is really worthwile to fight against the whole street.Lastly we were full and loaded on our way to Tianyi Square(where is the bittersweet place for me.I may tell the story when i collect enough images and courage),strumblingly and limpingly.

hope your marriage is not limping, hehe

love is the best thing in the world， please remember this sentence； maybe you are one person in the world, but for someone, you are the world.
v6uh-A1\^,wV meanwhile, we also should take care of our family and parents, we have no right to yell at our parenta for they give life to us. so take care of your family .

[quote]Originally posted by [i]starzhang430[/i] at 2008-7-7 08:44 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3263664&ptid=325689][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
bP}4Zc&Ah0\|n8r.` love is the best thing in the world， please remember this sentence； maybe you are one person in the world, but for someone, you are the world.
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yeah, you are right.