How long do you think the two lovers are suitable marriage ?

I and my bf is not in the same city, but we love each other very much. He wanted to get married but i think we are still very young ( born 1983) , we see twice a month.until now we have been in love six months, but never quarrel.
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1-2years

My BF and I loved each other more than 7 years,  we started  loving in the senior high school because in that time  we are the classmates ,but  the universities which we learned are in the different cities. There are a long distance betweem us, but not affect our emotion.Now we have finished the university and  living  together without marriage.W F&lR']
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so in my opinion, if you love each other you can not marriage because the marriage is just a form.

You move too fast if you get married in the next year.

Till the end of this year, I think that you can get married with your boyfriend. One year for lover to prepare marrying is ok!:)

Reply #1 stephanie-zhang's post

love + money + sex = good marriage

i think three years is needed before the marriage.Matter of fact,i'm a little afraid of the marriage.

There is only love each other stronger than marriage, married makes your marriage legalization.

Anytime is OK, if you are sure both of you love each other forever.

marriage is not depends on how long you know each other,but for the money you have.marrige need lots of money:victory: :victory:

at least 1-2 years i think

Thanks for your attention, but now we don't have much money, don't have house (maybe need to provide a loan. Even we no better condition but he hope we have a baby soon. :)

at least two years in love, then get married

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My BF and I loved each other more than 7 years,  we started  loving in the senior high school because in that time  we are the classmates ,but  the universities which we learned are in the different cities. There are a long distance betweem us, but not affect our emotion.Now we have finished the university and  living  together without marriage.'jAgC)C*Mg$Z
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maybe few lovers can stay together over 7 years without marriage---even though it's a form only, it's a necessary form.

six months? married? maybe :L
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six months and just meet for twice a month? i don't think it enough for you to know each other.

six months and just meet for twice a month? i don't think it enough for you to know each other.

you know so many love stories happened in the tower of ivory which are regarded as immaculate as pure water  always come to an end after graduation,seldom have a good result. And the majority \.G4A&Q*z7q
are in love with their sweet hearts for a long period,some maybe 4 years all through their college life.
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If you really love each other very much, why not now.

Reply #18 fdcenmo's post

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Reply #1 stephanie-zhang's post

Six months is too shhort for you two, and you meet each other twice a month, it's not enough for you to know him.
8Sxb,W.N by the way, you are too young to marry. do not hurry, enjoy your love, after a long time and consideration, then make decision