In a way of foreign trade

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Now it is not easy to stop, I know. So I applyed my resignation, have a rest for myself.b+o/Ye'm9S!i r%N
Found that when sick, nobody give me a cup of tea, no one to help me a shoulder. ](I"nl1C)S6i
Seems nothing for me.Just lonely.
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As a foreign salesman, seem I had took all praise from my director and my customers, stand the position of " sales manager " when I so young,
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Now the company's run into the systhem, more and more customers know the name of factory, the total amount of export is risen and risen. However, it seems that everything has been, and I do not have a relationship with it.b1zA:t!B4f v.p;r

WiKd9W6F What's the " tradeing " ?za} ?,D+W3Y
For me, it just
$Io%\\K-MgEa develop the new customers,
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operate the inquires,
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6u(gF.Vt:^4[cF8L trackle the details, then trackle the orders in the factory,
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inspect the goods on factory,8Fq9X
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trackle the transport of cargo,
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At the same time, I need to trackle and deal with the details about our sales team..vHd"^P}/?)Zvd

\h/a&Kd It seems feel well when the cusotmers praise you doing the perfect job,
UW1PVZ0\6P*R` they brought me more and more business, more and more orders, also introduce me more and more new customers,
3G2BPW*~!Eh)r at the same time, I took more and more work, and spent longer and longer time on factory.
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I feels so tired when I decide leave, it is too difficult to affact on the thinking of enterprise boss, when you found the problems between the customers and your director, especially conflict of interests.$gbU)a1p
It will have different result if most of enterprise directors could lister to the really truth, if they could know the truth, it will be more important of the company's credit than profits.
m6`|4^8y9['XCb So, I decide leave, with my conscience and pride, with my smile.9keA;}"`$T0Fd

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he said " Hi, my dear, we are all miss you so much, would you come back with me ? ... "
.j t/z/T;w\L!J I had not say anything so long time, even if I miss them so much, too, cause I cried already.3Mwl vBR
" for me, please forgot me, please! It could not turn back to before already, please forgot me. "
({B\\#FF? I could not tell them more about the reason why I decide to leave,  time will dilute all the shadow of my heart.2zU2]s6T#d

@R:~i%WSY I do not know why I could do so happy when I was doing these works on factory?wZ$g/Y5w
I do not know if I could let somebody bring to mind?
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I do not know where is my future?E+S~.fQ?_2[3M

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A good article!
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Oq2o I learnt from your thinking,your inner world.
i1LK G6C"L*Vd Thank you for your sharing.:)

A experienced salesman told me that learn how to enjoy lonely first if you want to be a good salesman,i was just graduated from college at that time.After two years' working,i can understand his words now:)

I admire you that you can share your intimate feeling with us !

I believe there will be a better job with trusted boss waiting for you, because i know form your words that you are a excellent salesman with rich experience already.

After saw your aritcle,i was moved deepy by your heart feeling,we are face with this problemes ,we are no way to chooce .

[size=3]Thanks for support of FOB friends.
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I want to go to Tibet, just only myself,
sc!d9TtZ$C u.X)L+| where is the most natural place in the blue sky from the city, could forgot all of things about the past? Maybe I could see my heart's colour.
Yd;UBh*U After this CNY holiday, I would like to have, or find a person married, do an easy job;
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xu&tF(B\I H-v Stop working these weeks, in fact, I found that I did not happy.
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5jM)J k:kO2CW " Have strong responsibility " seems not well for my living now.nC`[.E3y!H
I came back to my pervious company one time,
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not for my personl reason, s*@c4t6C8}{c
that's because my previous customer called me to come back to factory and inspect one order, which I operated when I was still on factory. They believe my inspection report at all, and cause that they knew I had not new job still now.8VBM:|4x
I went back on one sunshiny afternoon, holp the inspection and tracking goods to container. v3yfz%p ODF
Customers said that I do very perfect, they want to pay my wages and to continue tracking the order details in this factory,
0H9OK.{E&mc!_.b They maybe unable to know, I once again entered the factory, my heart is very been broken again.$E5jsB/L)A
It is still raining, and raining...
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#XrK? Bd'K1y That is the place which I struggled 6 years already.
CdhM,fQWO"_ As a girl, for 6years, I feels so sadly, every minute, every second when I am free now.Now, I have to bear all the pain, and not with customers of the reasons for that, they did not understand why?mK)r h9],U.g;Zq

8R8u(`;r:Q.a_9N Lose, sadness, helplessness.
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6years alone for a women in her most beautiful years
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leave, but with
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Reply #7 FlyingMice's post

i can understand your feeling ,the hopeless ,lonely and sadness1ec:w#I6Tw
i hope now u can get better when u take a holiday
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u know job is only one part of our whole life~meanwhile ,we can try to choose our favorite
%?u:_4GFTv%p2V life...i do hate my job ,too for many reasons ,,but everyday i try myself to be happy,then i can6F+Ym*^#J)lr`S
cost the time easily...hehe:lol

i feel heart- break when i go through your passage ,how could be a good girl be treat as bad as what your have suffered .
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I 'm enjoy your hard work and yout effort .
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The god help those who help themselves .
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9x-n8xF9Q G God bless you ,my Dear!6Q%gY?ZQrQ}(WO
Amen !

kind heart

try to perfect and feel difficultUAS7A*P(^
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and no stop
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because all of us are completist

you can !!:handshake

[font=Verdana][size=5]Tomorrow is another day!![/size][/font]

Trust yourself, I think you must be a very nice girl. -D IAm;ySRDY$v k
Looking for a nice person whom with share allthings with you, even happy or unhappy thing, you are hand by hand together.

A good moved passage, in fact, everyone may be can come accross these tackles during their own life , the important point is that how can they deal with using their owe thought and ways, in addition, how can they treat these with their mind.6jYP7xsb\} J
In particular, we the foreign salers, ofter can meet some emergence that we can not image, what's more, beyond our behavier extrame.K/\h;ps ^C
But, one day , we will walk out from the shadow or the failure,and absorb the experience from our own business or lessons.9PIP
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Come on !baby,everything will disappear, including the unhappiness issues.Belive yourself!"Z@` {7`nfd
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[[i] Last edited by zqqd1983 at 2008-1-31 14:14 [/i]]

hey ,you are a absolutely a fool I feel.It is so hard to get the position of  a department manger ,which a lot who work as a salesman desire ,while you drop it .and hereby you did not state what the hell you thought .Olny told us some essential message.

a impressive story .

it's really a pity that stay lonly at the most beautiful season

[quote]Originally posted by [i]jinyueyin2004[/i] at 2008-2-1 13:04 [url=http://www.fobshanghai.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=3211247&ptid=317053][img]http://www.fobshanghai.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
G(@:j\(sG hey ,you are a absolutely a fool I feel.It is so hard to get the position of  a department manger ,which a lot who work as a salesman desire ,while you drop it .and hereby you did not state what the hell you thought .Olny told us some essential message. [/quote]
(iU.sUNs ^;{a Great, an good idea for me.
M]1q{"NY I will establish one trade company with my friend, with all support from FOB and my customers, don't live in the shadow of pasttime.
r+On6t;\%^ c1y3] Let's go, all FOB friends, it will be get better and better tomorrow, give me your smile, it is sunny day on everyday.

i think you have a perfenct experiences to r establish a new company for yourself,it must  owe to your 6 years in the factory.,F tiP(|
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so when you memory your undergoings in the neat future,i think it must be a big help to your career and life!
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q,Y9Wt good luck to you !:)

good article.  it moves me deeply. you are a clever girl, who can does many things and bears all the suffering, which you impress me very much.`~&u~G-W+}wJ)M
I can feel that there are many boys chasing after, but why you feel lonely? why nobody gives a hand to you when you are sick? someting wrong with your interpersonal skills or no good friends? think of yourself and others? is there something missing between you and your friends? workaholic, you are?!Sv0ce$z bJ D6d
you did the right thing you go out for a break. but don't get married just because you are badly hurt at the monent, only if there is someone who you love much and love you very much.*G$[kh
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actually, we are born to suffer happiness and bitterness. maybe you lack of good friends, but there are many customer who like you, love you, even treat you as dear!!! so, don't give up. don't lose heart. things are not as what you see if you stand on different viewpoint.
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may god bless you. my dear.

I was moved when I was reading your article.
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It is really lonely for someone who works in a factory. Because there are no other amusement if the factory is not very huge. Not to say for one GIRL. YOUNG GIRL. .
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Our factory is the same place as yours. No sport, no activity. A few monthes ago, we could play basketball. But now, there is no basketball for us to play. The basketball has been broken, and no body goes to buy a new one anymore. Even some one bought one, there are also no body play it.  In fact, we have a basketball team, but since 4 monthes ago, two colleagues who are very good at playing basketball had resigned.
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+b.Ma0ykQS For other activity? Very unactive, because our manager always surweil us. Every night is a boring night.&} T)]EftjJ

2T"yLd _k Very uninteresting..
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No meaningless
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G/z%L${m&y1il7e Sorry for my words. I just have been moved by your article, and can not stop my thought....

Reply #22 jeanwayang's post

No entertainment, no sports , no actitive, no .... so many things we have not . but I can go back my warm home after off duty. I think I am a forture.