General guideline of Chinese Business Protocol(Moved)

[size=2]This article is from other BBS with little visit traffic, so I moved it here hoping more people can read it and enable you to do a successful business here in China.jh2p5PzL~X
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I have to admit that this is a good article and bring general and omnibus idea about Chinese Business culture but there is still some changes to Chinese business culture after nearly 15years of economy development.-Bw!@L
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Business Dress

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!biakL,BV Men should wear suits and ties to formal events; tuxedoes are not a part of Chinese business culture.
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Conversation

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Negative replies are considered impolite. Instead of saying 'no', answer 'maybe', 'I'll think about it', or 'We'll see' and get into specifics later. You'll find that the Chinese will do the same. When your Chinese counterparts smilingly and politely or even enthusiastically say 'No big problem' or 'The problem is not serious', they usually mean 'There are still problems.' #CI-i_&~Yo

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In Chinese culture, the question 'Have you eaten?' or or 'Where have you been?' is the equivalent to 'How are you?' in North America; it's just a superficial inquiry that does not require a literal-minded, detailed answer. Simply answer, 'yes', even if you haven't actually eaten or simply smile and say 'thank you.' qW NS3D7tA Uh
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6Z(^Je:b/tJK Make an effort to learn and use at least a few words in Chinese; your initiative will be noticed and appreciated. Make sure you know the meaning and appropriate occasions for what you say.
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You may make general inquiries about the health of another's family, such as 'are all in your family well?'
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7f1f.h1o1VK7A 'Small talk' is considered especially important at the beginning of a meeting; any of the topics suggested in the next set of points will be appropriate for this occasion.
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weather, climate, and geography in China
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First Name or Title?

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A married Chinese woman usually retains her maiden name; she will use her husband's last name on occasions for formal addressing only.
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Many Chinese adopt an English first name to make it easier for North Americans and other Westerners to address them. You can expect to hear some rather odd and rare English names as they try hard to be different from others.
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Address people using official titles such as ???General??? ???Committee Member???, or ???Bureau Chief??? whenever possible. It is customary to address the deputies by skipping the word 'deputy,' such as, 'Chief' for 'Deputy Chief,' 'Chairman' for 'Vice Chairman' 'General Manager' for 'Assistant General Manager.'
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Gift Giving

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The Chinese will decline a gift three times before finally accepting, so as not to appear greedy. You will have to continue to insist. Once the gift is accepted, express gratitude. You will be expected to go through the same routine if you are offered a gift.
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Make sure that the gifts given to people of the same level of importance are equitable or of similar grade. Somehow, they may find out later, and the difference may lead to strains in your relationship.
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Acceptable gifts for a company include items from your country or city, such as handicrafts, or an illustrated book. Be sure to bring a supply of these items with you, so that you can reciprocate if it happens that you are presented with a gift.
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Gifts to Avoid
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Let's Make a Deal!

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When receiving a business card, make a show of examining it carefully for a few moments; then, carefully place it into your card case or on the table, if you are seated at one.
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,Oh_!q8|h-hqC In Chinese business culture, humility is a virtue. Exaggerated claims are regarded with suspicion and, in most instances, will be investigated.
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The Chinese will not directly say ???no??? to you. Instead, ambivalent answers such as ???perhaps???, ???I'm not sure???, ???I'll think about it???, or ???We'll see??? usually mean ???no.???
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The Chinese tend to extend negotiations well beyond the official deadline to gain advantage. On the final day of your visit, they even may try to renegotiate everything.
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The host is the first person at the table allowed to begin eating by declaring the first toast. Then, the rest of the company can proceed with the meal. If you are the host, take the first piece of the most valued food and put it on your guest of honour's plate after the first toast. This will signify that eating can proceed and is considered a friendly gesture.6d1XV.}~ S:j:n
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